Adventures of a College Educated Misfit Part 9.2

Independent

"I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T do you know what that means man?........ She got her own house, she got her own whip......... She got a pretty smile, smell real good, only time she need a man is for that good juug" xTrill Fam

Are all "Independent" woman who are able to do for themselves looked upon with the same stigma that being independent, for the level and things she's acquired at that point in her life, as an angry, bourgeoise and entitled female?

Interesting point to bring up, my fellow misfit. There are several points I'd like to discuss, and I think I'll go a different route on this one.

First, although independent women can come across as angry and masculine, it doesn't mean they're always trying to emasculate or do everything on their own. Be it lonely or not, do you agree that being an educated, successful and career operating black male makes you a hot commodity? Do you also agree that thirsty hoes whisper many beautiful things in your ear that you want to hear and reap ALL the rewards of a relationship an independent woman seek?

I pose these questions on the basis that independent women exist because hot commodity men, have a fear of commitment to a strong individual who can bring them to a greater level of success if he’s willing to do a little work instead of instant gratitude that a thirsty hoe can easily flip within minutes to win your affection.

If hoes can win in the sense that an accomplished man who has faced many hardships in life will be just fine with not pushing himself to new heights of greatness, love and a level of accomplishment because a hoe will cater to his ego, than so be it. Honestly, its tremendously sad to know that the male ego is so shallow that instant gratification through a booty dance and hustle scheme will be all it takes for him to fall in love.

I can go on all day on my feelings associated with men’s fear and lack of confidence to attempt these strong women. But for this rant’s sake, I will end on yes, strong black women can do the most. But, if black men  tried breaking down a strong woman’s walls, imagine how much more of power a hot commodity black man could be…. wouldn’t it be nice to see black love more successful than a joke and the black man’s position in America strengthened? Instead, he will settle with a hoe because he is too afraid to meet expectations of what a strong black woman is more than capable of helping him to achieve. Interesting….

Once again, strong women seemingly take independence to a whole new level, but can you blame them? Look around, who is making moves without using their vagina’s to trap a man? When has a woman been able to make her own salary higher if not more than competitive than a male counterpart? Strong black women have to fight every day and yet yield everyday because they are women, yet a hoe uses her vagina like a Visa and men throw themselves at their feet…. ah man I’ll just leave on this note.